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April 18, 2008

I think of Jane everyday and miss her more now than when she first passed. I miss talking to her and will love her always. I know she is waiting for us in heaven and that brings me great joy.
Charli Faulknor (Arlington, TX)

December 1, 2007

Recently found your website. I'm sorry for your loss with deepest sympathies. Take care of yourself.

mac760 (nwla, LA)

November 9, 2007

I have just started visiting this site when I ran across the passing of your wife, I donít know you at all but I just wanted to say Iím sorry. I canít imagine what you are feeling; the only thing I can say again is Iím so sorry.

David Holler
A future air gunner
David Holler (Midland, TX)

October 31, 2007

Joel, I just recently discovered your site. A long time ago I lost my lady so I have an idea of what you are going through. God bless you, live your life the way she would want you to live it. It takes a long time but day by day, month by month, you will regain your emotional strength and your zest for life will return even if different than before.
Rob Virgin (Jefferson, PA)
July 29, 2007
Only just seen this bud, it brought tears to my eyes. What can one say at such a time. Keep heart keep strength until you meet again on the golden highway~Del,

England U.K.
Derek (Del) Walton (Bury)

May 30, 2007
Know that Jane is accompanied by angels as she is looking down on you, amazed at how much you truly are a good man. My sympathies to you and your family.
Eric Paquette (Montreal, QC)
May 28, 2007
Joel, I'm so sorry for your loss.
You have my deepest sympathy and are in my prayers. - Joben
Jonathan Chappell (Stafford Springs, CT)
May 11, 2007

Joel. So sorry to hear of your loss. I'm praying that the Lord will fill the void in your heart as only He can.
God bless and keep you and your family.
Steve Riley (Aiken, SC)
May 8, 2007

May God comfort you during this difficult time.
John Hull (AL)
May 5, 2007

May God watch you, and bless you in you time of need........
May 3, 2007

I am sorry to hear of your that your wife has passed. She is at home with Jesus. Thank you for your web site, it is by far the best on the net. It is people like you that give me faith in humanity.
brad white (Henderson, NV)
May 3, 2007

You can not replace that missing piece within your heart. You can, however reap the joy that was given you by her presence throughout the years shared. Those memories should be of happiness for that was what Jane created. You wear that caring at but a glance. Though I do not know you or Jane, you belong to a community that has readily accepted people for who they are in talent & faults. I am one of these people, therefore I share in your sorrow. Peace & Strength To You And Your Family...
Kevin Bordelon (Pensacola, FL)
May 3, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
David Zinn (Hannibal, MO)
May 2, 2007
Hey, Joel:
I wish that I had an opportunity to know your wife...thanks for sharing a bit about her with us. Take care of yourself and your family, and remember all the good things you shared with Jane. I think you were very lucky to have had her in your life.
Daniel De La O (Fair Oaks, CA)
May 2, 2007
May God comfort you and your family at this time.
Rick Carroll (Escondido, CA)
May 2, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss..
God Bless
Anthony Annuzzi (Jacksonville, FL)
May 2, 2007
I didn't know your wife but I can tell that she was a great person, wife and mother. May God bless you and your family as he has in the past.
One of your airgunning buddies,

David Enoch
David Enoch (Dallas, TX)
May 2, 2007
Joel my condolences to you and your family.
Marco de Lijster (The Netherlands)
May 2, 2007
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Know that you and Jane are in my prayers.
Jim LeVach (Morrisville, PA)

May 2, 2007

I was saddened to hear of the loss of your Wife, Jane.

Regards Grant Stace & Family, N.Z.
Grant Stace. (Christchurch, N.Z.)

May 2, 2007

Dear Joel and Family:
My deepest sympathy to the loss of your loving wife, mother, grandmother and sister. I worked with Jane at IAB for a few years and she was so full of sunshine. She proudly displayed pictures of her family whom she adored. Jane touched everyone she met. All of who knew Jane and worked with her will have the memories of such an awesome lady. Your family was truly blessed as we as her friends and coworkers.
Jane is now watching us in amazement at how many people truly loved and cared about her. We love you Jane.
Dawn Loken-Smith
Dawn Loken-Smith (Arlington, TX)
April 25, 2007

Joel and Family:
You and yours are in Amanda and my prayers in this time of need...May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Robert Jones (Lakewood, CA)
April 24, 2007

Joel, My deepest sympathy for your loss. When you are feeling down you can count on your friends, call me anytime
Greg Fuller (CA)
April 23, 2007
May God bless you and yours during this time of sorrow.
Calvin Lewis (Orlando, FL)
April 23, 2007
I never know what to say at times like these. Joel, I want you to know that Sue and I are thinking of you and your family.
Tim Smith (Concord, NC)

April 22, 2007


Dear Mr. Lively, you do not know me, but I am just someone passing by. I saw the family tree with all the Clough's and googled your name, and much to my sorrow for you, I found your pretty wife's picture. I am sorry for you, May The Lord let his grace rest upon you. I am a Clough decendant (i was adopted) but none the less the grand-daughter of the late Preston Thomas Clough, and my mom Ilma Clough Gibson, My grandfather's prayer that was taught to me by my mother Ilma Clough: Oh Lord..We return Thanks for these and all of thy blessings..and a wife is a blessing from the Lord..God Bless You Dear...sincerely, Sandra Suzanne Gibson Fino
Sandra Suzanne Gibson-Fino (Richmond, VA)

April 22, 2007

Joel, I am trully sorry for your loss. I cannot come close to understanding your pain. You must take time and talk with God. I will pray for you and your family to give your strength during this time. Call me if you just want to talk. Ernie.
Ernie "The Eyeball" Fuentes (Tampa, FL)

April 22, 2007

Joel, We are so sorry to hear about your loss, and, on behalf of Jane's cousins in the George O. Clough family, we send our sincerest sympathy. Susan Clough Wyatt and Richard Williams
Susan Wyatt (Albuquerque, NM)
April 22, 2007
Joel, I am very glad I made the services. I can see why you married Jane-very wonderful person. She will be missed by many.
Steve Corcoran (Gainesville, TX)
April 22, 2007
Joel, There are no words to give comfort, I am sending you and the family my sincere condolences. May the lord send you strength.
Steve in CT (CT)
April 22, 2007
What does one say in a time like this? I did not know your wife or you but I hurt with you and your family. John 3:16
Theodore Summers (Bellefonte, PA)
April 22, 2007
Joel, please accept our deepest condolences for the loss of Jane Ellan.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this time and always.
Mike 'mspf' and Lynne 'The Lady Sniper'
Mike Parker-Fell (London)
April 22, 2007
I'm sorry about your loss. May God bless you and your family and give you strength.
Tim Miller (Naples, FL)
April 22, 2007
Our prayers are with you, Joel.
Randy Mitchell (Vine Grove, KY)
April 22, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Gerald Sky Alaibilla (Kapaa, Kauai, HI)
April 22, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. May this time with family and friends help ease your pain and may the Holy Spirit bring you condolence.
Art Braden (Kokomo, IN)
April 22, 2007
Joel...I didn't know Jane, and I've never met you in person, but I still feel as if I've lost a member of my extended family. Please let me know if there's anything I can do.
Scot Laughlin
April 20, 2007
Joel, I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I know she meant the world to you.
Rick Andres (Bartlett, IL)
April 20, 2007
My sincerest condolences. Jane will be missed by friends and family. Just know that you can find your strenght in the vast community of friends you have built up over the years. Our shoulders are here for you and yours.
Klayton Kidd (Tucson)
April 20, 2007
Joel, may God grant you and your family his peace, which passes all understanding.
Larry Rollins (Shawnee, KS)
April 20, 2007
My condolences to you and your family.
Roy Weid (Big Bear City, CA)
April 20, 2007
My condolences Joel. Call me later when you have time. - Hoyt
Hoyt Vandenberg (Lake Forest, CA)
April 20, 2007
Sorry to hear of Jane's passing but now she is in the comforting hands of the Lord and knowing that she and Joel will be together again some day.
Robert Werner
April 20, 2007
My Deepest Sympathy to Family and Friends of Jane.
Scott Sumida (Caseyville, IL)
April 20, 2007
Jeff, my prayers are with you and your family. Take care and you know I'm here if you or your family need anything. May the love of Christ get you through this difficult time.
Michele Rayburn (Fort Worth, TX)
April 20, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. May this time with family and friends help ease your pain.
Donna Quarles (Carr) (Bokchito, OK)
April 20, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss at the home-going of your wife, Jane. You and your family are in our prayers. "I thank my God on every remembrance of you."
James Roberts (Lawton, OK)
April 19, 2007
Thank you, Father, for Jane's special friendship. And thank you for taking away her pain and giving her Your peace. Please comfort her family and friends during their time of grief. In Jesus' precious name, Amen
Charli Faulknor (Arlington, TX)
April 19, 2007
I will miss Jane, she was my neighbor and friend always a joy the picture of patients and compassion and more than a conquer in Christ Jesus. My prayers for you Joel and your family will be continuous God Bless you.
Carol Bulliner (Fort Worth, TX)
April 19, 2007
Jane was a good friend and a great person to go to that would listen to others with her heart and soul. The book; Grab a Broom Lord, is teaching me some of the same lessens that Jane taught me in the few years that God let me know her while I worked at G.E. God made us from dust and imperfections and got carried away with some of us but, when it is our time to go back to him, the only thing we see is grace and perfection in his presence.
Patricia Elaine Moore (Arlington, TX)
April 19, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Rebecca Carr (Arlington, TX)
April 19, 2007
To Joel and all the family, we send our love and deepest sympathy for the loss of such a treasure as Jane who, by all accounts, touched hearts near and far.
Shaula & Bill Parker (Weatherford, TX)
April 19, 2007
I am so shocked and sad to read that Jane has passed away. Jane and Joel and Joseph and I always had such a good time together, laughing at the crazy stories Joel told. Jane was a beautiful person, both inside and out, and I never saw her in a bad mood. She was calm, serene and forgiving and I bet she and Joseph are laughing away in Heaven right now, just like old times. The world needs more people like Jane!

April 19, 2007

Joel: From all 9 of your Callahan cousins around the country, our deepest condolences on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please also extend our sympathies to your parents -- our Uncle Richard and Aunt Kate.
Allen & Rose Callahan (St. Louis, MO)
April 19, 2007
I was so blessed by Jane's friendship. I will carry MANY happy memories of good times, many smiles, lots of laughter, & love. Jane will be forever missed.
Laura Gorman (Arlington, TX)
April 19, 2007
I'm so sorry to hear of Jane's passing, but I know she is now in Heaven with no more pain. I enjoyed working with Jane at GE. She was always so happy and sweet. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with all the family and friends.
May God be your comfort and strength during this time.
Love & Prayers,
Pam Robbins
Pam Robbins (Euless, TX)
April 19, 2007
It was a privelge to work with Jane these past 2 years at IAB. She was always ready to help everyone, and I will miss hearing her voice. My thoughts are with Joel and the family.
Jim Belote
Jim Belote (Tahoe Vista, CA)
April 19, 2007
The absence of Jane here on earth will be greatly felt. She was such a wonderful and funny person. I had the pleasure of working with Jane at GE in Arlington. My prayers go out for her family.
Lea Ann Parker-Pitones (Arlington, TX)
April 19, 2007
Jane took pride in what she did. I was given the chance to work with a good employee at IAB. She taught me a lot knowledge .
I will miss her laugh's we had together and our talks about the kid's. Sometimes we would act goofy just to get thru the day. We had more good times in associate services than bad times. We worked as a team. I will miss you with all my heart Jane.
Deanna Alvarado and Family IAB Associate services Rep.
Deanna Gonzlaes (Crolwey, TX)
April 19, 2007
I worked with Jane at GE. I am so sorry for the lost of such a wonderful person. She was a joy to work with. I don't think I ever saw her without a smile. You all are in my prayers.
Pat Chase (Arlington, TX)
April 19, 2007
I worked with Jane at GE. She was one of the sweetest ladies that I had ever met. Always a smile and a kind word for everyone. I still remember her pumpkin bread. She always made sure I got a piece. My prayers are with her family..
Joy lusk (Palestine, TX)
April 19, 2007
I am sorry for your lost. Jane will be missed by all her friends. I worked with Jane at GE and she always had great things to say about everyone. She was a wonderful person to know. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Debbie Fuller (Fort Worth, TX)
April 19, 2007

Joel, you and all your family are in our thoughts and prayers
Richard & Vera Mae Stilwell (MINERAL WELLS, TX)
April 19, 2007
I am so very sorry for your loss. Jane was a joy to work with at GE. She always had a smile on her face. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Tina Rivers (Kennedale, TX)
April 19, 2007
Jane, even though we did not keep in touch personally, I will miss you. I enjoyed working with you and thanks for being a friend to my sister and myself. My prayers are with your family.
Mary Helen Moore (Pantego, TX)
April 19, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Jane at GE Group Admin. She was such a joy to work with and she always had a smile on her face.
Brenda Briseno (Arlington, TX)
April 19, 2007
I will miss my dear friend Jane. But I know she is in heaven watching out for her family. Family ment everything to Jane. She loved all of you she would always show me picture of her grandbabies. She was so proud of her children and grandchildren. And Joel she loved you dearly. I think she would talk forever about all of you. Jane will be greatly missed. All of you are in my prayers.
Betty Pruett (Arlington, TX)
April 19, 2007
Jane, you will be greatly missed. Joel and family, my prayers and thoughts are with you.
God Bless.
Barbara Baum (Arlington, TX)